This phrase was required to be written and signed by every student at the bottom of every major assignment at Davidson College. On the hand, I am very appreciative of the freedom the Honor Code provided at Davidson--we could leave doors unlocked, backpacks in the quad, and all exams were self-scheduled. On the other hand, I am realizing the impact this sentence can have on alumni...we don't ask for help.
When I went to Princeton Seminary, I never felt comfortable in study groups. I was reflecting on this with a fellow Davidson, Princeton grad and associate here at First Presbyterian and she agreed. There was something unsettling about sharing ideas.
So I decided to do an informal survey of two davidson alum at this church and a close friend from Davidson, we all agree. The Honor Code has built a strong sense of integrity and honor. It has instilled a strong work ethic and drive. But, perhaps, rather than seeking to build commradarie and community, it has reinforced a lone-ranger individualism that leaves many of us as exhausted, Type-A, overachievers who are never satisfied nor feel it is appropriate to stop and ask for help.
And this produces the tension in ministry as we are called to a life of honor and integrity but also community and support.
--oh by the way, did you see how Davidson has the longest win streak in the nation? Go Cats!
2 comments:
You never wanted to study in groups? Shocking...
Thanks for the package that arrived yesterday! That was an extremely welcome surprise.
I hope all is well. Take care,
A.Pomerville
Well put.
=)
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